All human beings are worthy of being loved. There is no need to be tethered to one person for your whole life. That is one of the reasons why all the people around the world look so bored. Why can’t they laugh and dance like you? They are chained with invisible chains: marriage, family, husband, wife, children.
Make people’s love free, make people non – possessive. But this can happen only if in your meditation you discover your being. It is nothing to practice.
I am not saying to you, “Tonight you go to some other woman just as a practice.” You will not get anything, and you may lose your wife. And in the morning you will look silly. It is not a question of practicing, it is a question of discovering your being.
With the discovery of being follows the quality of impersonal lovingness. Then you simply love.
(From Death to Deathlessness)